“Ghost Conflict” is what I read from The Third Ear and I think it often happened between our life.  We communicate with people around us everyday. We use the same language to talk about things, but we still have argument  even we have the same perspectives. For instance, I always speak dialect with my parents instead of Mandarin Chinese. 

Speaking dialect with my parents can shorten distances of mind between us. The most important reason is it can lessen the conflicts when we talked about things.  The background of language included culture, education, and so on. So I also teach my children the dialect because of the same reason. It can help to build well relationship for grandson.