The perfectionism’s most core feature is fear fail. The fear impel them first care that how to avoid fail ,avoid make mistakes,avoid do something wrong. couse they fear fail,They always want avoid any challenge,go away any possible fail things. But no body can always success,When they face their imperfection and really side of human nature sooner or late,they are thorough fall apart.
Of course ,No body like fail,But for excellent person,they are understand that there is no other way to learn and success. They are realize that the fail not always is bad thing,maybe it can give us more chooses and enlighten. Those maybe can’t realize in success. For excellent person,the fail is change of feedback. Cause by they not fear the fail,so they can learn from it. When they are fail in something,they would takes time for themselves to digestion problems,and to look for reasons.then ,they will try again,more work hard. The excellent person would focus little grow up,they would accept a zigzag way to achieve goal,don’t like perfectionism that always only accept a straight way.Cause by the excellent person wouldn’t casually give up or fear fail like perfectionism,They have more change achieve their goal.
For perfectionism,the best life and only can accept life is no fail life . For excellent person,They think that the fail couldn’t avoid fail,and always has many limits ,They realize only accept it ,learn it ,that is best choose of life.