Focus on the goal, Enjoy process
If you have a fit goal ,this is a great thing. But I want to know that whether you only care achieve goal,then hate the process of achieve goal. Many people have a goal,but most of people only want achieve goal early,They don’t like process. When they must go through the process of achieve goal,They would become impatient,and They don’t enjoy the happy of process. They are simple see the journey as an obstacle,and must clean the obstacle use any way. And they also realize that the process couldn’t all miss,so they are see the process as a step of hate but must do it. Whereupon,they are try one’s best to let the process is more short than better,less challenge is better.
In my learn English process. I had severe those thought. I set a goal that it’s master English. But I only want achieve goal early,I always impatient for the process,I can’t calm down to learning. In the later,I was hated learn English,I was doubted myself whether could master English. This is very difficult time. But I still walked out it. I was changed my thought .
Actually, most of people are same,We have same expect for goal,But some excellent are different,tThey are cherish the journey of go to the goal,they know that the way will zigzag,but still have happy and value,sometime is not. They are different with averages,They wouldn’t disregard another of life. They are clearly know the life is component from go through the journey of goal.