The golf player are crazy , he talk to him he will win ,beside the people properily already hear it ,In his mind he said : he can not do it , he will become the failure . Yes he did , the main reason was what he think and the people labour and he already fail several times . that is why he has a give up mind , he do not have positive midset and growth midset so will not have motivation and will be hard to foucaus ,Finally fiure will be normal and Dead circle will come .

I also have same problem, and more big problem than him, I don’t want to write again. 

How do we solve the problem ,the best ways is get help ,get professional to help, not your parents ,your parents do not how to deal with it , by the ways , parents need also join , and one times nno enough , must do a lot of times until problem slove.